First Comes The Wink, Then Comes The Kick:)

Universal guidance is always beaming the signal "This way please". Can you see it???

From my personal experience and from observation I must say " I'm not always aware of it's existence, because life is so busy and I need to take care of the tasks at hand. Well and then after finishing my work, I'm exhausted and don't want to think at all.....":) Yes I'm exaggerating now but the reality of our life often is like that.

The good news is that the calling of the Universe will get stronger and stronger with every day we don't follow the call. Where is it calling us??? It's is calling us to the expansion we asked for, to the new job we asked for, the better relationships we asked for etc.

For example, the Universe wants to lead you to a better feeling job beaming it's signal "come this way". This signal comes through information, ideas, you'll see an ad in the paper that catches your attention and such. Those signals are a winks you are offered to follow and even a shy tiny tiny step will put you on a better feeling spot already just by the fact of taking action and may it be just to look closer into an information.
Remember, what ever you do, check how you feel about it (eventually sleep on it). When you feel good about, then do it.

As I said the call is getting stronger and stronger and when we do not follow, we will get a kick that will catapult us into  a new situation from which we will have more clarity and can recognize our path better.
Unfortunately those kicks do not really feel good, but later, when we look back, we'll see the meaning of it.

So why don't we follow the winks and so often wait till we get the kick?
The answer is very simple. From the point of reality, where we stand in that moment, we can not see the vistas and our mind reflects that mindset by presenting a  plethora of reasons not to step out of the safe but not satisfying situation. So we don't even try and feel stuck.

I am no exception in this lack of team-spirit with the Universe.
I was trained and actually very proud of managing my life, taking control. I thought that is the sure-fire way of life and somewhat it is.
I certainly can understand when you are standing in the same shoes as I was as long I had other people (my children and parents) depending on my ability to manage my life.

Now I have the freedom to follow life's calling and I have to say, this is the "real deal". To live life in I-do, U-do is fun and excitement. When you can embrace the uncertainty of life (which by-the-way is always present and no insurance policy can prevent us from) and follow your heart, you'll live a full life.

You don't need to pull your happiness out of the Universe by manipulating your environment, be patient, trust and let it unfold. The Universal timing is always the right time.

Trust in the life force that is you, laugh more, play more, enjoy your life.