Where Did It Turn Bad?

In general, we are trained to evaluate our experiences as good or bad.

Events are either good or bad; they turn into good or bad through the observer's evaluation.

When you'd interview two people about the same event you will get two pictures based on the orientation of the person who experienced it.
When you can recall an event from your own life, where something that looked good at first turned out to be bad (or vice versa), then you may open to the possibility that there is no sense in evaluating events.

Events are opportunities to refine our path. They are opportunity to get to know who we really are, know our values.

Events we experience are points where we can pivot and zero in on our destination. 

With this understanding our path becomes more precise and we move easier forward in the direction of our desired vision by simultaneously becoming more and more who we truly are.

When you stay pointed in the direction of your desired path, by letting go of the evaluation of events, you will be able to access solutions that are supporting your forward movement. You will be able to serve others by reaching your own goals in a win-win co-creation.

Understand this concept and grow closer to who you really are.

When you encounter negative experience become the positive counterpart of it.

When you observe hatred - envision world of Love and kindness and be loving and kind.
When you observe hunger - envision world where everyone has plenty of food and be generous.